Visiting our Diede relatives in GermanyRecounted by David Walden
Velva flew to Europe from her then home in Coos Bay, Oregon, and I flew to Europe from Boston where I lived. After visiting a close family friend near Copenhagen, Velva and I took at train to Dusseldorf, Germany.
In Dusseldorf, we were met by Amalia Diede (page 396, line III.2, first edition), and I rented a car. With Amalia giving directions, the three of us drove to Herzogenrath, Germany, near Aachen (near where Germany, The Netherlands, and Belgium meet at the so-called ``three countries point'').
In Herzogenrath, we met Karl Schorzmann and his wife Emilia Diede Schorzmann (page 395, line II, first edition) who lived with their son Willy Schorzmann and his wife Eve. Willy and Eve had a nice house, and I think Willy worked in (or had worked in) coal mines. I don't remember if Willy and Eve spoke English; I believe some of their children did.
Photo (probably taken by Tom Schaur), L-to-R: Karl Schorzmann, Velva Diede Walden,
Emilia Diede Schorzmann, Eve Schorzmann, and David Walden
Karl and Emilia were in their 80s, I think, when we visited. Velva spoke the German dialect from Russia with Emilia; I think Karl was perhaps too deaf for Velva to talk to him much. Velva spoke regular German with Willy and Eve. We stayed overnight with the family. Tom Schauer (at that time stationed in the US military in Germany) met us there, and also stayed overnight. The family provided excellent hospitality.
While we were in Herzogenrath, Amalia also took us on a day trip a fair distance away (an hour or two drive) to visit the Schatz family. Velva's cousin Charlie Heinle was a nephew to the Schatz family, although they did not know him. (Rosina Diede was unmarried but pregnant with Charlie at the time her family was deciding to move from Russian to the United States. Charlie's father, a Schatz, was in the Russian army. When Charlie's father's father heard that the Diede family was going to the U.S., he tried to bring his son home to marry Rosina so his grandchild would remain in Russia. However, Charlie's father was killed by being kicked by a horse before he could go home. In the U.S., Rosina's husband didn't want Charlie living in his family, so Charlie was raised as Charlie Heinle by Rosina's sister Katherina Diede Heinle. Rosina, Katherina and Charlie are shown in the Figure 2 photograph in Velva's biography To the Best of My Memory, available from me to appropriate family members, and on page 5 of the July 4, 1979, issue of the Hebron Herald as part of an article by Pauline Neher Diede.)
Amalia then directed us back to Dusseldorf where we visited Oscar Diede (page 396, line III.1, first edition) and his family. (I think Tom Schauer couldn't come along and went back to his military location.) I remember sketching on a piece of paper the relationship between me and Oscar and his son Marc (a scrap of paper I still have). In Dusseldorf we also met Amalia's daughter.
Velva and I were planning to spend the night of the last day of our visit at an airport hotel, so I could catch a plane early the next morning to London where I was scheduled to conduct some business; and Velva was scheduled to catch a train to Switzerland the next morning. However, we got to the airport late and all the hotel rooms were taken (there was a convention going on). Furthermore, our car got a flat tire. Thus, Velva phoned Amalia and asked if we could stay overnight with her. She graciously agreed and said that she thought about inviting us but wasn't sure if we would want to stay with her. We took a taxi to her house, and I put in a call for a very early morning taxi back to the airport. That morning I caught my plane to London, and Velva caught her train to Switzerland.
Velva and Amalia became quite friendly, and maybe even met again on a later trip my mother made to Europe. In any case, Amalia was the key contact person for our visit.
Meeting these Diede relatives who took a different route out of Russia at a much later time than Velva's family left Russia was an unforgettable opportunity for me.